second anniversary! *yippie*

there is no better feeling than being with your loved ones. 
knowing that you always have a shoulder to cry no matter how hard your day, is a blessing.  
i know i'm not perfect, you aren't either, but we can build our lives together perfectly. right?  
it's been two years since my life changed.

but since the first day i became your wife, i know this relationship will work.  

and we did it so far! :')

dear husband, thank you for choosing me to be your wife. 
thank you for guiding me to be a better person every day. 
it's a bit difficult, eh? just keep trying, please ;)

and dear God, let me be with him for the rest of my life.

raising our children and being wrinkled together. aamiin.  

happy 2nd anniversary my dear,it's been two years,
and it's only getting better.

and i baked some cakes
it's a red velvet and brownie party baby!!

 

classic question

why you chose to marry at a young age when you still can be free and do the things you like without having to think about a husband and children?
an old and classic question. guess what? yesterday, my friend asked me this question (again).
i've answered this question many times since i got married last year.

well, the answer is still the same, i want to speed up my happiness. how?
simple!
for me, happiness is build a happy family. without worry about cliche things like, young age, wealth, or maybe popularity. in the end, everybody (or just me, no?) want a true happiness.
feeling loved, that's an important thing. for me, happiness is having a husband as your friend, bestfriend, partner, and also as a bodyguard to define the limits in everyday acts.
this limitation will make our lives more purposeful, no time wasted just to enjoy the youth. as everybody know that will end up sooner or later.
and then, having children. seeing them grow up, have a lover, and finally got married.
it is a happiness that I want to see straight before i was too old.

if you could start your happy life since you were young, why wait until you're old?
God always be with us, so why worry?
it might sound very classic. but that's my answer ;p

 dear lovely people, have a good friday!

xoxo

thank you

M. Arif Rahman,

Thank you so much for falling in love with me, and asking me to be your wife. Thank you for leading me closer to the God. You never were angry when I struggled to pray in the middle of the night. and you never let us to go to bed without praying. I can't wait to see you become a father someday ;) and I'm so excited for whatever God has for our family.

Thank you for holding and comforting me in the painful moments. You are incredibly patient, but me? (i have no idea). One of the things I love most about you is how little you hold onto possessions and earthly things. You would be fine giving anything of yours away, and you don't put stock or happiness in money or wealth. You inspire and challenge me to be more heavenly-minded and keep my focus on treasuring up God.

You have helped me heal and grow in so many ways. You're such a blessings for my life. I've loved our joyful moments together, same as our ridiculous moments, cries, laughs. in short, Thank you for being my husband.

i love you

wedding things (part 2)

19th June is our wedding day
we finally got married after dealing with long distance relationship for almost five years
we met in Makassar until he was assigned to move to Jakarta
long-distance relationship is never, never, never be easy
we've got a lot of problems!
including loneliness and boredom

but after marriage, I feel that the long-distance relationship will greatly strengthen the feeling of love.
you can finally see your partner fall asleep, listening to his the heartbeat, and waited until he opened his eyes then say "good morning" right beside his ears. it's lovely!

wellll, before this session continues to the "curhat session",
I wanted to say a lot of thanks to all who have helped us in everythings
to my super MOM and DAD :) ,to my mother & father-in-law (a bit awkward with this word) haha ;)
to all my friends "you are the best" thank you!!
and for you, you, you also who attended and prayed for us, millions of thanks

hmm, you should take a note for this:
if you are in a long distance relationship right now,
never be afraid ;)
in the end, a sincere relationship will get the sweetest end

well now, I'll share some of my wedding photos
another photos still in @indra_avisenna 's 'pocket' blame it to him! err


 

thats what i wear

just two photos available rite now :/

taken by my brother with my cam.

I'll share more, later ;)

 

wedding things (part1)

some photos of our wedding invitation

on 19th of July 2011

:)

thankyou all for coming

thanks you so much

from me & husband

:)